Salam Aidil Adha 1430H

Assalamualaikum dan salam sejahtera kepada sahabat2 dan pembaca2 sekalian.. Alhamdulillah bersyukur kita kerana dipertemukan sekali dlm blog yg tak seberapa ini..

Dah lama jugak sy tidak menulis sesuatu dlm blog ni.. tetiba jari jemari ini terasa rindu untuk menulis sesuatu sempena Aidil Adha yg akan menjelang esok.. My mother in law kini sedang berada di tanah haram makkah al mukarramah bg menunaikan rukun islam yg kelima.. setinggi2 kesyukuran kupanjatkan pd Illahi kerana dengan izinNya dpt ibunda mertuaku menjejakkan kakinya menunaikan haji pd tahun ini.. syukur....

Kami sekeluarga sentiasa mendoakan agar ibunda mendapat haji yg mabrur dan diterima segala amalan sepanjang ibdah di sana... mohon juga doa ibunda untuk anakanda di sini...

Aidil Adha kali ini amat berbeza dengan tahun2 sebelumnya kerana aku menyambut dengan penuh kegembiraan bersama suami tercinta dan keluarga tersayang both in law and my family.. walaupun disambut dengan penuh kesederhanaan dan keinsafan, aidil adha kali ini tetap memberi satu pengertian buat diriku...

Aidil adha tahun ini juga merupakan Hari Ulangtahun Kelahiran abahku Hj Abd Kadir yang ke-54.. semoga Allah mengurniakan umur yg panjang pd abah, diberi kesihatan yg baik, dilimpahkan rezeki dan diberi kebahagiaan di dunia dan akhirat buat ayahanda tersayang...

emmm.. nampaknyer sudah tiba masa untuk balik hehehehe... at least dpt mencoretkan sesuatu dlm blog ni pun dah ok wpun sedikit pengisian kata2... namu penuh pengertian... to both my family n family in laws, sahabat2, rakan pembaca blog dan juga muslimin dan muslimat .. SELAMAT MENYAMBUT AIDIL ADHA MAAF ZAHIR DAN BATIN...

Marhaban Ya Ramadhan

Assalamualaikum dan Salam Ramadhan..

Marhaban Ya Ramadhan!!! Ahlan Wasahlan Ramadhan Kareem!! Ilalliqa' Ya Syaaban..........

Esok 22hb Ogos 2009 / 1 Ramadhan 1430H umat Islam diseluruh negara akan menjalani ibadah puasa.. Alhamdulillah dgn penuh kesyukuran aku panjatkan pd Allah s.w.t kerana memberi peluang pada diri ini menemui Ramadhan yg penuh barakah.. Bulan yang paling baik dari 1000 bulan.. MasyaAllah betapa besarnya hikmah Bulan Ramadhan..

Nabi Muhammad s.a.w pernah bersabda: "Permulaan Ramadhan itu adalah rahmat, pertengahannya adalah keampunan (maghrifah) dan penghujungnya adalah kebebasan dari api neraka"

Ku mengharapkan Ramadhan

Kali ini penuh makna

Agar dapat kulalui Dengan sempurna

Selangkah demi selangkah

Setahun sudah pun berlalu

Masa yang pantas berlalu

Hingga tak terasa ku berada

Di bulan Ramadhan semula

Puasa satu amalan

Sebagaimana yang diperintahNya

Moga dapat ku lenturkan

Nafsu yang selalu membelenggu diri

Tiada henti-henti

Tak ingin ku biarkan Ramadhan berlalu saja

Tuhan pimpinlah daku yang lemah

Mengharungi segalanya dengan sabar

Kita memohon pada Tuhan diberikan kekuatan

Ku merayu pada Tuhan diterima amalan

Selangkah demi selangkah...

Dengan rahmatMu oh Tuhanku...

Ku tempuh jua

Nabi Muhammad s.a.w pernah bersabda: "Bagi orang yang melaksanakan ibadah puasa, baginya ada dua saat kegembiraan.Pertama pada waktu berbuka dan kedua ketika menghadap Ilahi"

aku mengharapkan agar Ramadhan kali ini lebih baik daripada yang lepas.. sesungguhnya aku berazam utk mempertingkatkan amalan dan memperbanyakkan sedeqah di samping amalan2 wajib.. byk2 zikir, tadarus al-Quran semoga ditingkatkan pahala kita dan mendpt barakah dan hikmah Ramadhan ini...

InsyaAllah ramadhan kali ini first time nak berpuasa bersama suami tersayang.. semoga kami tabah dalam menghadapi Ramadhan kali ini dengan penuh keinsafan dan dipenuhi amalan.. semoga mendapat hikmah dan barakah terutama malam lailatulqadar.. amin ya rabbal a'lamin...

(time ni lah baru sibuk nak fikir juadah berbuka puasa dan bersahur.. dulu masa zaman bujang serah pada bonda.. now bak kata nabil "lu fikirlah sendiri" )

last but not least selamat menyambut Ramadhan Al- Mubarak dari saya sekeluarga..

Wassalam..

Sabtu yang suram

assalamualaikum.. selamat hari sabtu.. huhu.. hari ni rasa mcm bosan sgt2.. suram je.. sesuram cuaca yg mendung2 di luar.. seolah2 hari nak hujan.. tapi siapa tahu, mendung tak bererti hujan.. semuanya terserah pd yg Maha Esa.. sesungguhnya Dia Maha Mengetahui dan Maha Pencipta..

Biasanya sabtu aku gi audit kat Rengit.. since khamis dah pegi, so hari ni aku stay ofis je lah.. actually byk keje nak buat.. Bos suruh prepare income statement for the year 2008 and half 2009.. buat jugaklah sikit2 walaupun mcm malas.. takde mood.. ni mood belum dtg so, bosan ler... kang bila time ade mood pandailah aku settlekan asalkan semua keje siap on time..

layan frenster and facebook pun mcm sepi... maybe ramai org tak keje hari sabtu... so, sepi jelah.. kdgkala "sepi itu indah" hidup kalau tak pernah rasa sepi tak adventure lah... kurang perasa.. kurang ajinomoto.. hidup ni kena ada mcm2 rasa.. barulah kita menikmati hidup anugerah Allah ni..

begitu juga dalam "meniti kehidupan menuju keredhaan", kita sentiasa akan diuji oleh berbagai2 dugaan dan cabaran.. sesungguhnya ujian itulah yg mengajar kita erti kehidupan, mengajar kita menghargai hidup ini dan seluruh isinya... "Allah tidak akan menguji hambaNya sekiranya tidak mampu" means that bila Allah bg ujian, kita sebenarnya mampu atasinya dan hadapinya.. CUMA.... bila? bagaimana? kenapa? macam mana? nak buat apa? semua persoalan ini harus dijawab dan diselesaikan dgn rasa sabar dan syukur... ada yg mudah, ada yg sukar... semuanya bergantung kepada ketahanan diri kita..

apepun ujian yg kita terima, kena byk2 sabar... bila kita berjaya menghadapi ujian itu, sesungguhnya kita tergolong di dalam golongan org2 yg bertuah... sesungguhnya di sebalik ujian itu, tersimpan rahsia dan hikmah Allah.. apa kah rahsia dan hikmah itu?? HANYA JAUHARI MENGENAL MANIKAM.. meminjam kata2 nabil " lu pikirlah sendiri...."

wallahua'lam...

sedikit perkongsian

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said,"How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "Itdepends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse.

You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was acompletely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything.

That's why it's called "falling" in love...

Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about theimagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standingthere; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades.

It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?"

And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown.

People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious.

But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.

You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery.

There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), thereare also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exerciseprogram makes you physically stronger, certain habits in yourrelationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause andeffect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. ..you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

Remember this always:

"God determines who walks into your life.

It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay,

and who you refuse to let go."

ACCIDENT

hari ni tanggal 22.07.2009 for the very first time aku terlibat dgn accident.. on the way gi bank lak tue dgn bos.. huhu.. aku yg duduk di seat belakang mak aih... nak tercampak... nasib baik dada terhentak sikit kat seat depan..

alhamdulillah syukur aku panjatkan pd Allah kerana mengizinkan aku bernafas di bumi ini... aku punyerlah excited nak tgk gerhana.. rupa2nya aku yg gerhana.. accident dgn wira.. huhu nasib baik keta bos aku triton tu 4wd.. kalau x mau remuk...

aku bergegas call my hubby.. then sepantas kilat dia dtg.. i really love him so much... sanggup dia dlm kebun sawit terus dtg melihat keadaan aku.. takdelah teruk sgt pun... tp aku mcm terkejut.. dada sakit.. my hubby risau yg tahap cipan terus mendptkan aku... then terus ke klinik takut2 ada mslh dalaman..

then check, x-ray.. alhamdulillah semuanya ok.. takde kecederaan serius.. terharu dan rasa lega bila my hubby dtg... aku dpt nampak kerisauan yg terpancar dari wajahnyer.. dia berkata " sape tak sayang bini oiiii!!" dlm keta aku menangis di sisinya.. aku takut tak dpt jumpa dia lagi... ternyata Allah Maha Kaya... dia masih memberi kekuatan padaku utk menghadapi hidup ini bersama suamiku...

apepun syukur sekali lagi... tiada apa yg lebih berharga di dunia ini daripada anugerah dari Allah yg tidak ternilai untukku.. i love you so much abang!

Superwoman

Early in the morning I put breakfast at your table

and make sure that your coffee has its sugar and cream

your eggs are over easy

your toast done lightly

all that's missing is your morning kiss that used to greet me

now you say the juice is sour

it used to be so sweet

and i can't help but to wonder

if you're talking about me

we dont talk the way we used to talk

its hurting me so deep

i got my pride

i will not cry

but it's making me weak..

i'm not your superwoman

i'm not the kind of girl that you can let down

and think that everything's ok

boy i'm only human

this girl needs more than occasional

hugs as a token of love from you to me..

i fought my way through the rush hour

trying to make it home just for you

i want to make sure that your dinner will be waiting for you

but when you get there you just tell me

you're not hungry at all

you said you'd rather read the paper

and you dont want to talk

you like to think that i'm just crazy

when i say that you've changed

i'm convinced i know the problem

you dont love me the same

you're just going through the emotion

and you're not being fair

i got my pride

i will not cry

still i can't help but care..

ooohh.. baby

look into the corner of your mind

i'll always be there for you

through good and bad times

but i can't be that superwoman

that you want me to be

i give my everlasting love

if you return love to me

if you feel it in your heart and you understand me

stop right where you are

everybody sing along with me

i'm the kind of girl that can treat you so sweet

but you got to realize that

you've got to be sweeter to me

i need love...

i need trust...

your love..

*this song is so meaningful.. all that i can say that i'm not a superwoman.. i have pride, i'm a normal humanbeing.. fo my hubby.. i know that i'm not a perfect person but i'll always love you more than forever... hope that our love will be everlasting forever until we meet again in the heaven... insyaAllah...

Mukaddimah

Assalamualaikum... salam sejahtera kepada sahabat-sahabat.. semoga sentiasa berada dlm perlindungan dan kasih sayang Allah jua...

First of all.. syukur pd Illahi atas nikmat yg dikurniakan pada hamba-hambaNya yg sentiasa bernaung di bawah langit dan di atas bumi ciptaan yang terindah tiada tolok bandingnya... Syukur atas nikmat udara yg disedut dan dihembus membolehkan insan bernama manusia bernafas di bumiMu yang permai ini...

apepun.. Bismillahirrahmanirrahim aku mulakan dlm menari2kan jejari tanganku menekan keyboard laptop ofis nie.. bukan membazir masa malah mengisi masa yg terluang dgn sesuatu yg insyaAllah bermanfaat kepada semua terutama diriku sendiri.. semoga Allah sentiasa memberi kekuatan, kesihatan dan keizinan utk aku meneruskan jari jemariku dan fikiranku untuk "MENELITI KEHIDUPAN MENUJU KEREDHAAN"...

sekian untuk mukaddimahnyer..
wallahua'alam...